As the end of the school year draws near we are entering into “recital” season. Your child may soon be participating in a dance recital or dance show. It is normal for them to be excited about the upcoming performance. In fact these nerves are a sign of energy. Nerves are often transformed into an exciting on stage charisma and a successful dance performance. But how do you help your child with pre-performance jitters?
I get asked this question quite often by parents of young children enrolled in my Dancetime byStephanie dance programs. Before our annual dance show some parents turn to me for advice in helping their child feel confident about performing.
Here are some helpful tips in helping your child deal with nerves before a big show:
- Make sure your child attends all dance classes and rehearsals before the show. Children perform well when they are confident about the material. Consistent class attendance leads to your child dancing their very best at the show.
- Find out what music your child will dance to in the show. Play the music at home and encourage your child to dance for you or on their own. Don’t worry if your child cannot remember all of the steps. This is an opportunity to become familiar with the music. By practicing the parts of the dance they remember, the brain will be stimulated into mastering more of the choreography in the next dance class. You can even play the music in the car so your child will begin memorizing musical cues.
- Attend the on-stage dress rehearsal if this opportunity presents itself. Becoming familiar with the stage helps your child feel more comfortable about performing. When discussing the show with your child, downplay the importance of it. If your child is shy or nervous about performing be low key and relaxed when you talk about the show. Explain that you’re looking forward to seeing the performance because you know it will be a great show.As a parent, if you are nervous or anxious about your child’s performance in the show, your attitude will be transferred to your child. You want to avoid this happening. So be positive! After all you want your child to feel happy and positive about the performance. Model the happy, positive behavior you want your child to have.
- Positive affirmations work!
Try telling your child:
“You’re going to have so much fun dancing with your friends!”
“I’m so happy you’re going to share your dance with us.”
“Everyone will clap for you because you’re going to dance beautifully.”
- Encourage your child to visualize their performance. Have your child close their eyes and
picture themselves performing all the steps of their dance from start to finish. Tell him or
her to imagine that they are dancing the best they’ve ever danced before. Visualization is
actually an effective form of rehearsal. It helps children dance better and feel calm about
performing. - Assist your child in being prepared on the day of the big show by arriving to the event on
time. You will be more relaxed if you are on time and this relaxation will be transferred to
your child.
Anticipate an incredible show because if you follow all of the tips above your child will shine on
stage!
Dancetime by Stephanie presents DANCING IN THE U.S.A., Sunday, June 12 , 6:00 P.M. at
Agoura Performing Arts Education Center. You may purchase tickets to DANCING IN THE U.S.A.
from our show link at www.dancetimebystephanie.com
